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Psychic Self-Defense – Easy Ways To Brighten Your Spiritual Light

29 Jul

Each of us is surrounded by energy and light. In some circles, this enveloping energy is called the aura, and it radiates our inner spiritual energy out to the world. It surrounds our body and reflects our condition. People who are healthy and happy have strong, bright auras, and people who are ill or in distress have weak dark auras. The aura can expand when energy increases or becomes stronger, and it can fade as a person’s inner power wanes.

The aura is a very personal expression of our unique personality, body, and character. And just as we can change our physical health and vitality, we can improve our aura. To do this, we must be prepared to invest time, effort, and perhaps a little money.

It is possible to feel or sense your own aura. Move your hands back and forth, closer to and away from your body. You may soon realize that there is a different energy level closer to your body. You may feel a little heat or resistance. Give it a try. You may be very surprised at the results. Sometimes, the people around us sense our aura.

Spiritual growth and the stronger energy and aura that come with it are important to protecting yourselves from negative energies and influences. Negative people who are consumed by worry or anger or who are seriously ill can actually drain our aura of its energy. People who dabble in the occult can do much more serious harm, so it’s important to maintain a strong healthy spirit and a vibrant glowing aura. This is what we call psychic self-defense.

In order to grow spiritually and increase your personal energy and aura, you must first clear your mind and body of negative thoughts and feelings that can weaken us and make us vulnerable to psychic attacks. This phase of spiritual healing involves introspection and careful self-examination of our spiritual strengths and weaknesses. Wherever we find anger, jealousy, resentment, or lust, we must find ways to reduce and eliminate them from our mind and heart. Then it’s important to replace these negative energies with positive ones.

Identify the causes for the negative thoughts and emotions. Now, take an honest look at them and determine whether they’re justified. In fact, no negative thought or feeling is justified for a person who hopes to grow spiritually. Replace those energies with positive ones. If you are angry at a person or event, look at the part you played in the situation and what you can do to resolve it. If you are envious or jealous, allow others to follow their own hearts, even if it means separation. If you hold a resentment, learn forgiveness. And if you feel lust, learn respect and self-restraint.

Of course, this process will take time. You can’t change overnight, and to pretend you have will subvert your effort. Be persistent and patient. Don’t use this to beat yourself up or undermine your self-esteem. Recognize that all of us can improve, and do what you can to replace your negative energies with positive ones. You will continue this self-improvement process throughout your life. Once you’ve gotten a good start, go on to the next phases of your effort.

Because the aura reflects your overall condition, it is important that your body is strong and healthy, too. Poor diet, stress, exhaustion, and illness can deplete your spiritual energy and give you a weaker darker aura. Make some important lifestyle changes. Avoid foods and substances that interfere with healthy functioning. Limit or eliminate caffeine, tobacco, and drugs. Adopt a healthy balanced diet that minimizes fast foods and processed meals. Be sure that you have the proper balance of different types of foods, and increase your consumption of fruits and vegetables. Make a habit of daily moderate exercise. You don’t have to join a gym. Just take a brisk walk or climb the stairs. Do something to increase and maintain an increased heart rate for 20-30 minutes each day. See a health care professional when you need to, not days or weeks later.

Take care of your self-esteem. Never tell yourself you’re not a good person. Never engage in negative self-talk. It’s not true, and it’s very harmful. Taking care of yourself also involves social relationships and mental stimulation. Begin to re-establish and nurture old relationships. Get involved in your community. Participate. Take a course or attend a concert. Enrich your imagination, and share the adventure with those you love.

Remember, though, that negative people’s energies can harm you. Avoid people who are cynical or pessimistic. They may be the very ones you’re learning to protect yourself from. Spiritual development and psychic self-defense involve being able to recognize those people, places, and events that drain your spiritual energy and weaken your aura. As much as possible, eliminate these negatives from your life and mind.

There are tools and techniques you’ll find very valuable in your spiritual development effort. They require a bit of education and a lot of practice, but they’re tremendously powerful. Some objects are good for eliminating the negative and nurturing the positive. One tool helps you identify, perhaps even see, your aura. Take a crystal hanging from a string in your right hand and rotate it around your body. You will feel vibrations through the string as the pendulum swings. Another way to find your aura is to light a candle and slowly close your eyes. You may be able to see your aura in different colors that cling to your body. Practice these exercises, and you’ll be come more aware of your aura and the messages it gives you about your spiritual condition.

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Weight Loss And Spirituality

29 Jul

Some turn to their spiritual side when undertaking weight loss. There are many of these diets including the Buddhist diet, the Hallelujah diet, and the Bible diet, just to name a few. Though these are all different in that they deal with different religious beliefs, they are all the same in some key ways. These spiritual diets use the mind and the spirit to stay on track and transform all parts of existence, not just the way the body looks and feels. 

Some spiritual diets guide a dieter to focus on the benefits of the foods they should be eating rather than the ones they should not. In some religious diets, each food has a specific benefit to the mental health and well-being of a person along with the benefits of the food to the body. This allows a person to see what good they are doing, and it can make the ‘bad’ foods much easier to resist. An example would be yogurt. This is good for regulating the digestive system and to avoid ulcers, but is also allows the mind (and body) to be more flexible. 

Other spiritual diets have eating restrictions based on the beliefs of that faith. For example, the Body by God Diet, which was developed by Dr. Ben Lerner, is touted as an “un-diet” rather than an actual weight loss program. This faith-based eating regime focuses on the importance of eating only all natural foods that God has provided and strictly prohibits the eating of all manufactured goods, such as pasteurized, packaged and refined foods. 

With many religions, there is a type of prayer involved. Christians fall to their knees to speak with God, and others have their own traditions. Some religions focus on the mind and body through things like yoga and meditation. These are used as powerful tools to gain will-power and strength, but have an even more important use. These work to keep the mind and spirit in an upward spiral. Depression can cause a diet to fail. With prayer and meditation, depression can be avoided and a positive state of mind can be constant. 

By accepting guidance from someone or something else – or even yourself – you make room for success in a weight loss plan. Emotional eating is a huge problem and can be traced back as the root of a weight problem in many who are overweight or obese. If you can overcome emotional eating with a spiritual diet plan, success is closer in reach. If you allow something you feel is more powerful than yourself to be your guide, you give yourself the power to succeed.

 Another powerful aspect of spiritual dieting is that you are more than who you think you are. You are more than just an executive, or a mother, or a wife. Some people get stuck in one identity and forget the other parts of their lives. When they feel overwhelmed, they focus on the one thing they feel they are not doing right instead of all of the things they are accomplishing in life. Spiritual weight loss pushes a person to find their whole self, and focus on what they do well and what they can do better. This is done in a positive manner so that emotional and binge eating once used to deal with these feelings can be a thing of the past, and healthy habits can take root.

Jen Page is a contributing author to Weight Loss Center, an authority website offering information about Weight Loss, Dieting, Weight Loss Programs and Health.

 
 

Spirituality Vs. Scientific Materialism

28 Jul

Spirituality and science never share same space. Spirituality is about faith, and science is about fact. Many scientific explorers have dug deep into spirituality to find the truth inside, and they found it as a big emptiness. On the other end, there are the so-called spiritual gurus who have set out their spiritual journey to prove that what we see, hear and feel are all God, and nothing else. They have surely found their way to make money by selling their Gods through The Secret Book and the Secret DVD.

The flamboyant spiritual gurus who preach the law of nature through their secret Seven Laws are no less than plain swindlers. They amass money along with fame for bringing ‘peace’ to the disturbed minds. They prescribe Quantum Wellness therapy to those who are suffering from chronic diseases. They challenge medical science, saying existing scientific therapies and medical procedures do not result in holistic healing. Quantum healing Oprah is the latest buzzword in the spiritual markets worldwide.

If the claims of these fake spiritual gurus were to be believed, the world today would not have been the same. You may not have been reading these lines, probably. If we know our days are decided by destiny, as they say, there is no need for us to struggle so much to make both ends meet. There would not have any clash between classes, religions or countries on the earth. People would have easily forgotten their sorrows and sufferings and just waited for their destiny to come and show the way.

But, what we see today is just the paradox. The spiritual gurus who promise holy wellness to the world by ‘shanti’ and meditation have become the perpetrators of communal violence and disharmony in the society. They mislead people by opposing the law of science or law of nature. The law of nature is built on Love – the love that you see around you, that you see in the cool breeze or the raindrops. The vastness of the sky and the deepness of the sea are the true symbols of the love.

What we see around us is the only truth. We cannot have faith on something that cannot show its presence in the nature. The spiritual magicians who incarnated on the earth ‘to see’ the world are the ones who do not know what ‘seeing’ is. Time has come to get rid of these bogus leaders.

I am Manoj Gupta Currently I am working on Debunking Web site. It provides online books related to
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28 Jul

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Spirituality and Success: Bridging the Gap

28 Jul

There is a new breed of spiritual seekers these days;
people looking for a better way to live. We, as a whole,
are not content with the routines of daily life, and the
quest for material gain is no longer completely satisfying
our needs. Humanity is looking for fulfillment, and we
have finally realized that peace, contentment and happiness
come from inside of our selves, not from external sources.
We have, after all these decades of probing, realized that
what we have been seeking has been with us, inside us, all
this time. We need only to turn our eyes inward to see the
potential that resides within. Getting to know ourselves
along with our connection and relationship with spirit,
will unlock that potential, and catapult us on an amazing
journey through life—a journey where worldly success and
spiritual bliss are achieved simultaneously.

Worldly success can be achieve and coexist in harmony with
spirituality—it’s the way things are supposed to be.
Primarily our perception and thoughts of what “should be”
are what hold us back. Success is more a state of mind and
how one perceives themselves as successful. Your
happiness is a choice that is made continually, throughout
each moment of each day. Again, thought and perception
mainly dictates whether you see yourself as happy or not.
To truly achieve ‘life success,’ you have to make your life
‘a success.’ This is only feasible if you are happy. People
from all walks of life are choosing to live a more
spiritual life, to follow a path of peace and contentment
while striving for success… And why not? Can we have both?
YES!

But what does it mean to live a spiritual life? Do we have
to forsake our possessions and the desire for achievement
and accomplishment? Being spiritual does not mean we have
to give up our thirst for life, and being successful does
not mean you have to be unhappy and ‘sell your soul.’ In
fact, a centered, contemplative and motivated person is
better poised for the greatest of life successes. By
knowing who you are and what you are capable of, and
realizing your connection to the earth, spirit and
humanity, you can move past fears and begin to live the
amazing adventure your life is meant to be!

Spirituality is not about perfection, nobody will ever
achieve that, but it is however, striving to live the best
life you can and to be the best person you can be everyday
in every way. It’s about following your heart and not
being afraid to peruse your dreams. It’s about having
compassion and forgiveness; being loving and kind and
inspiring and motivating others to reach inside themselves
and thrive. It’s about living morally and justly—being
virtuous and holding true to your heart’s desires. Being
spiritual is to adapt a ‘Christ like’ consciousness and
without judgment, ego or fear, pursuing your journey on
earth and cherishing the gift of life.

And what about success… It is such an arbitrary term,
meaning so many things to so many people. I like to ask,
“What is your definition of success?” How do you define
being successful? Are you on a certain path just to
appease or please someone else? Do you act a certain way
because you believe it is the ‘socially acceptable’ thing
to do? You have to ask yourself what do you really want,
what speaks truth to your soul? What, in your heart and
mind, will make you a success. Many people have a certain
goal or dream, and will not believe they are successful
until they reach that point. But living successfully is a
daily path, not a destination or something to be achieved
or attained. We need to look at success on a smaller
scale; the successes we achieve moment to moment are just
as important as life-long success.

Spirituality and success are both paths to travel and not
definitive destinations. To achieve total life success,
one must make living spiritual and being successful a
lifestyle. Like water and clay, they should be molded
together to create the masterpiece of your life. You
cannot have one without the other. How can you be happy if
you do not feel you are a success? Contrarily you’re not a
total success if you cannot find peace and contentment.

For centuries we have followed these two paths separately,
thinking we cannot have it both simultaneously. And for
centuries, we have been frustrated and unfulfilled,
bouncing back and forth from the paths of spirituality and
success. What we have failed to realize, and are beginning
to awaken to, is the idea that both paths are synonymous.
We can have both; we can live fulfilling spiritual lives
and be successful at the same time. After all, it is what
we were born for. “But son, do not forget my teaching, but
keep my commandments in your heart, for they will prolong
your life many years and bring you prosperity”. Proverbs
3:1-2 NIV


Dave Ferruolo is the Author of “Connecting with the Bliss
of Life: Powerful Lessons for Living a Peaceful and Happy
Life.” He is an inspirational and motivational speaker,
success coach, consultant and spiritual counselor. Dave is
a former Navy SEAL, and he runs several business in central
New Hampshire. For more detailed information on Dave’s
books and services, visit his website at
http://www.daveferruolo.com .

 
 

Spiritual Progressives Unite to confront the Religious Right, the Anti-Religious Left, and the Empir

27 Jul

An individual has not started living until he or she can rise above the narrow confines of his or her individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity.”-Martin Luther King, Jr.

During the third week of May, in Washington D.C. over 1,200 patriotic Americans of all faiths and the spiritual but not religious came together for the second conference of The Network of Spiritual Progressives/NSP and to lobby Congress. The activists are challenging the misuse of religion, God and spirit by the Religious Right and the anti-religious and anti-spiritual biases within the Liberal Left.

Authentic spirituality will inevitably lead one to become political. The Network of Spiritual Progressives is a diverse community that is unified by one heart that is broken over the state of the world and our nation. These activists are willing to sacrifice their life, resources and time to the work of confronting the Old Bottom Line in America which is based on greed, materialism, selfishness, power and over consumption.

The New Bottom Line proposes that institutions and social practices should be based on the higher values of love, caring, generosity, and equal human rights. The NSP proposes that the well being of every American depends on the well being of everyone in the world and recognizes our interdependence with all people and Mother Earth.

On May 18th the activists visited their Congressional Representatives to present “A Spiritual Covenant with America.”

The eight point platform addresses individual, social and governmental responsibility for ethical behavior that honors the sacredness of all life. As the debate over immigration was going on in Congress many activists were promoting a rational approach to immigration through a strategy of non-violence and generosity that works to eliminate poverty not with a hand out but with furnishing the means and the support to enable the impoverished to attain a decent life.

The NSP supports a “Global Marshall Plan to use 5% of the GDP of the advanced industrial societies-each year for the next twenty years-to end global poverty, hunger, homelessness, inadequate education, and inadequate health care. This will do more for homeland security and military safety than does sinking trillions of dollars into wars and strategies of world domination that can never work and are immoral…not by dumping money into the hands of corrupt governments, but through cooperation with NGO’s committed to human rights, democracy, environmental sustainability and enhancement and respect for native cultures and traditions.” [Number 7 in The Spiritual Covenant with America]

Many will say the NSP members are all dreamers, but it was dreamers who imagined life without slavery, civil rights, and women’s rights and it was Rilke who first understood: “You must give birth to your dreams: they are the future waiting to be born.”

These ‘out-of-the-box’ thinkers and visionaries will not be satisfied with any short-term political gain. The task of transforming society requires commitment, persistence and a deep inner life. What progressive spiritual activists have in common is a broken heart united over the plight of the poor and oppressed, a commitment to total non-violent resistance no matter what the provocation, and sacrificial lives that offer time and resources to actualize the message Christ spoke of when he proclaimed on the Mount of The Beatitudes, that the reign and the kingdom of God is a kingdom where all beings are equal and valued just as they are.

In a country that possesses 11,000 nuclear weapons with many in excess of 20,000,000 tons of TNT [the bombs dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki were 12,000 tons] yet claims to be based on the Judeo-Christian ethic of thou shalt not kill, is staggering in it’s hypocrisy. The law of Karma is what goes around comes around and the fallout from one of these WMD will find its way back home through water and wind currents and the words of Pogo come to mind: “We have seen the enemy and he is us.”

Mankind is the only species that has the choice of annihilating itself. “Since the end of the Cold War, the world has spent more than $10 trillion on armaments. The Untied States alone spends approximately $100 million every day to keep its nuclear arsenal at the ready.” [Jonathon Granoff, TIKKUN Magazine 9/11/03]

American money proclaims “In God We Trust” but the facts on the ground are that we have become an empire of blasphemers.

Fundamentalist Christians rail against abortion yet are for capital punishment and war. They have narrowed morality down to abortion and same sex marriage and neglect that God is love and where ever there is love: God is there.

If we are serious about a peaceful world we must have a moral agenda that stands firmly against empire building and violence. John Dear, the Jesuit priest who has been arrested 75 times for his peace activism asked Cesar Chavez what he thought was the key to peace, and Chavez exclaimed: “Public Action! Public action! Public action!”

In the ’60’s we understood if one is not a part of the solution, one is part of the problem. Throughout America patriotic spiritual activists of all faith paths and the spiritual but not religious have found common ground and are doing something more than criticizing and whining. Chapters of The Network of Spiritual Progressives are forming from the New York Islands to the Gulf Stream waters for this world belongs to all human beings.

Eileen is a retired RN, activist, author, poet, reporter and editor for the WAWA Blog:
http://www.wearewideawake.org
She is running for House of Representatives District 5 in Florida and is a member of the NSP:
http://www.spiritualprogressives.org

 
 

Spiritual Growth: the Spiritual Challenge of Modern Times

27 Jul

To grow spiritually in a world defined by power, money, and influence is a Herculean task. Modern conveniences such as electronic equipments, gadgets, and tools as well as entertainment through television, magazines, and the web have predisposed us to confine our attention mostly to physical needs and wants. As a result, our concepts of self-worth and self-meaning are muddled. How can we strike a balance between the material and spiritual aspects of our lives?

To grow spiritually is to look inward.

Introspection goes beyond recalling the things that happened in a day, week, or month. You need to look closely and reflect on your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and motivations. Periodically examining your experiences, the decisions you make, the relationships you have, and the things you engage in provide useful insights on your life goals, on the good traits you must sustain and the bad traits you have to discard. Moreover, it gives you clues on how to act, react, and conduct yourself in the midst of any situation. Like any skill, introspection can be learned; all it takes is the courage and willingness to seek the truths that lie within you. Here are some pointers when you introspect: be objective, be forgiving of yourself, and focus on your areas for improvement.

To grow spiritually is to develop your potentials.

Religion and science have differing views on matters of the human spirit. Religion views people as spiritual beings temporarily living on Earth, while science views the spirit as just one dimension of an individual. Mastery of the self is a recurring theme in both Christian (Western) and Islamic (Eastern) teachings. The needs of the body are recognized but placed under the needs of the spirit. Beliefs, values, morality, rules, experiences, and good works provide the blueprint to ensure the growth of the spiritual being. In Psychology, realizing one’s full potential is to self-actualize. Maslow identified several human needs: physiological, security, belongingness, esteem, cognitive, aesthetic, self-actualization, and self-transcendence. James earlier categorized these needs into three: material, emotional, and spiritual. When you have satisfied the basic physiological and emotional needs, spiritual or existential needs come next. Achieving each need leads to the total development of the individual. Perhaps the difference between these two religions and psychology is the end of self-development: Christianity and Islam see that self-development is a means toward serving God, while psychology view that self-development is an end by itself.

To grow spiritually is to search for meaning.

Religions that believe in the existence of God such as Christianism, Judaism, and Islam suppose that the purpose of the human life is to serve the Creator of all things. Several theories in psychology propose that we ultimately give meaning to our lives. Whether we believe that life’s meaning is pre-determined or self-directed, to grow in spirit is to realize that we do not merely exist. We do not know the meaning of our lives at birth; but we gain knowledge and wisdom from our interactions with people and from our actions and reactions to the situations we are in. As we discover this meaning, there are certain beliefs and values that we reject and affirm. Our lives have purpose. This purpose puts all our physical, emotional, and intellectual potentials into use; sustains us during trying times; and gives us something to look forward to—a goal to achieve, a destination to reach. A person without purpose or meaning is like a drifting ship at sea.

To grow spiritually is to recognize interconnections.

Religions stress the concept of our relatedness to all creation, live and inanimate. Thus we call other people “brothers and sisters” even if there are no direct blood relations. Moreover, deity-centered religions such as Christianity and Islam speak of the relationship between humans and a higher being. On the other hand, science expounds on our link to other living things through the evolution theory. This relatedness is clearly seen in the concept of ecology, the interaction between living and non-living things. In psychology, connectedness is a characteristic of self-transcendence, the highest human need according to Maslow. Recognizing your connection to all things makes you more humble and respectful of people, animals, plants, and things in nature. It makes you appreciate everything around you. It moves you to go beyond your comfort zone and reach out to other people, and become stewards of all other things around you.

Growth is a process thus to grow in spirit is a day-to-day encounter. We win some, we lose some, but the important thing is that we learn, and from this knowledge, further spiritual growth is made possible.

Dr. Janette Marie Freeman, author also of “Why Did This Happen to Me Again? Keys to Lasting Transformation,” and “Live the Life You Love – In Spirit” For your free subscription to the popular “Live Richly” Newsletter go to http://www.janettemariefreeman.com

 
 

Individual Growth Is Spiritual As Well, Not Just Bones And Muscles

26 Jul

We all grow naturally. Without much effort, we see bones develop from infant stages into adult hood, from soft pliable material to hard matter. We see muscles grow and we feel ourselves getting stronger with time. All of this occurs naturally, as we eat, work, and play. But what does it take for us to grow spiritually? Spiritual growth requires a conscious effort of introspection and analysis.

If we want to grow spiritually, we need to be by turning our thoughts in instead of out. Instead of focusing on what is around us, we need to examine our hearts. Why do we do what we do? Why do we hang out with the people that we hang out with? What are our good traits and how did we attain them? What are our bad traits, and how can we get rid of them?

Introspection teaches us to consider how we act and it motivates us to change how we behave on a daily and moment by moment basis. But introspection requires great courage. Many people never look inward because they fear that they won’t like what they see, and ultimately they don’t want to change what they see.

When you grow spiritually, you take hold of the potentials you’ve been given. You consider what you can do, and you grow even more by reaching beyond what you think you can do and thus developing more potential.

Science and religion have been at odds for decades now when examining the human spirit. For example, religion sees human beings as just spiritual beings that move on this planet momentarily, and science sees the spirit as just a part of the whole individual. People grow spiritually when the recognize what they must do enhance growth: their beliefs, morality, experience, and good works form the foundation for spiritual growth. Ironically, the psychologist James Maslow theorized that if a person can meet his physical needs, he can meet his spiritual needs as well.

Ultimately, when we seek to grow spiritually, we seek meaning in our lives. And that’s where faith comes in. Religions such as Christianity, Judaism, and Islam teach that their followers will find meaning through serving a higher being, a Creator. And psychologists theorize that we find meaning through ourselves, that we determine if we have meaning in our lives. But ultimately, finding meaning means realizing that we live on this earth for a purpose, and once we realize that, we put all of our desires and actions into focus with that purpose: we live for that purpose.

Finally, growing spiritually means understanding our connection with the world around us. Doing so will lead to a greater respect of the things and people around us. And whether we find that connection through faith or psychology, ultimately we grow spiritually because of that connection.

Gregg Hall is an author living in Navarre Florida. Find more about this as well as spiritual christian gifts at http://www.spiritualchristiangifts.com

 
 

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26 Jul

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Recharge your Spiritual Batteries: How to Take a Personal Retreat

26 Jul

Everyone occasionally feels a need for inner rejuvenation. Whether you want simply to reclaim your inner peace in the midst of a hectic life, or do some soul searching over your life directions, or go deeper into your spiritual life, going on retreat can be a perfect solution.

A true retreat is much more than a vacation – it can be a time of conscious, spiritual opening, of making an enjoyable effort to rise to an entirely new state of awareness. Here are a few tips for a retreat experience that’s both relaxing and spiritually rewarding.

Find the Right Environment

Seek out a place that is harmonious with your goals. The right environment can give you a tremendous boost – while the wrong one can leave you feeling flat, or even work against you. So do your homework and ask some questions, because even similar-seeming places can have quite different emphases.

Do you want a highly structured retreat, or do you want freedom to do what inspires you? Do you think you might need some guidance in customizing your retreat, or do you know exactly what you want to do? Choose a retreat center that offers what you seek.

If it’s spiritual depth you’re after, choose a place with an established spiritual tradition. Then you’ll be like a surfer who chooses a beach with the best waves, rather than trying somehow to create waves yourself.

Look also for a place that uplifts you with its beautiful natural surroundings, and with space to be alone whenever you wish it.

If you’re new to retreating, go to a retreat center that offers personal guidance. Optional, guided group activities are also a plus. Even experienced retreatants find that occasionally tapping into the magnetism of group activities can be invaluable for keeping their energy high and focused. For example, The Expanding Light Spiritual Retreat Center in California offers twice-daily sessions of yoga postures and meditation.

Prepare Yourself

Eat right and get rested before you go on retreat; otherwise, you may need the first day or two of your retreat just to pull yourself together. If you already engage in spiritual practices, get a head start by putting extra energy into them before departing. You’ll be glad you did.

As soon as you leave home, put all problems forcefully out of your mind. Preoccupation with problems can suffocate your retreat, while a worry-free retreat can actually help you solve problems more effectively by getting you into “solution consciousness” rather than “problem consciousness.”

Plan Variety in Your Retreat

Who wants to go on a retreat that seems like boot camp? Let it be fun, and plan a variety of activities. For example, you might use the mornings for your most interiorized efforts: prayer, meditation, journal writing, or spiritual reading. Then be more expansive in the afternoons: walk in nature, do something creative, or listen to uplifting music or lecture tapes. Reserve your evenings for lighter fare: a spiritual video, a humorous book, or simply relaxed, quality time with like-minded people. And always allow for the inspiration of the moment; don’t be locked into anyone’s agenda – even your own.

Keep Perspective

Your free time is precious, and it’s only natural to be concerned over whether you’re doing it “right.” But there’s no magic formula for a retreat. Just find a flow that works for you, and go with it. Remember, what you do is not nearly as important as whether your inspiration and “joy level” are high. You don’t have to pray and meditate all day long; few people can do that constructively, anyway. You don’t have to stay in silence or solitude, though many people find these beneficial. And don’t “over-retreat”: if you’re a first-timer, 2–4 days is plenty. Focus on enjoyment, rather than “should’s.”

Above All, Relax and Enjoy Yourself

Don’t put pressure on yourself to see immediate, dramatic results. When you go on retreat, you are planting a spiritual seed. If you water it by your own continuing spiritual efforts, in time it will surely sprout into the flower of peace and joy that you seek.

Gyandev Rich McCord is the Educational Director of The Expanding Light, Ananda?s Meditation and Yoga Retreat. Over 18 years, he has helped thousands of people from every walk of life to make the most of the retreat experience.


He is also the Director of The Expanding Light?s month-long Ananda Yoga Teacher Training certification program, and a founding member of Yoga Alliance, the non-profit organization that has developed standards for yoga teachers nationally. Also, he and his wife Diksha lead an yoga and ayurveda healing retreat every year to a five-star Ayurvedic clinic in India.